St. Lucia

Just 17 more days until we leave for St. Lucia to get married. I must say that I am getting a little nervous. Not so much nervous about the wedding - I am really excited about getting married to my wife-to-be and the fact we are doing a destination wedding and writing our own vows (which was my idea "for the record"). I am so blessed to have met her and for everyting that has followed since that first date. But nervous because I will become a Dad to another little boy. Our family will immediatly become a family of 4 from 2. WOW, that's a lot of groceries. I will have a "step" son and she will have a "step" son. That sounds so weird. So, I don't understand the whole wording of "step". If we are out and someone says is that your son - am I suppose to correct that? I really don't plan to correct that. And what about my son - does he correct people and say "no, thats not my brother that's my "step" brother. He's only 4 so I think just telling him that after we get married Adam will become his brother is shock enough. Thankfully, her little boy and my little boy get along great - except her son doesnt quite understand video games yet - but we are trying to get him caught up.